Every year we look forward to Pride Month because Pride has not only moved the needle on equality in the country, but it’s a proud part of Deity history. We’ve been hosting same-sex couples for as long as Deity has been in existence, 2007- Pre Equal Marriage Act! The great thing about having history in the LGTBQIA+ community is knowing that this is in the past- that you did it! It should be common ground we walk on to allow the marriage of same-sex couples. We know there are still prejudices towards the community, but this month we celebrate all the love that has been shared thanks to the equal marriage act. Let’s celebrate some of our couples from this past year!
Same-Sex Couples Warmly Welcomed at Deity Brooklyn
If you are still concerned about hosting a big wedding as a same-sex couples. These previous Deity couples can assure you they felt warmly welcomed here at Deity. Your love and commitment to each other deserves to be celebrated- equally. We hope this gives you the confidence to make a leap and go for it!
Pride in Our Same-Sex Couples at Deity Brooklyn
Same-Sex Wedding Aaron and Sandy
This past April, my husband and I held our wedding ceremony and reception at Deity, and it was a beautiful, life-changing experience. We came into the wedding planning process with fears and anxieties, and were immediately soothed by Anna’s capable and personalized care. Throughout the months of planning, Anna was our rock and helped us plan, prepare and coordinate, even making better suggestions when we came up with odd requests. Not only did we feel engaged and comfortable, we also felt respected as individuals and supported as a LGTBQ couple. On the day of the wedding, our anxieties gave way to excitement, optimism, and pure love and joy as the Deity team led a beautifully choreographed day + evening for us, our family, and friends, from working with our vendors, to keeping a solid schedule, to serving incredible food, to incorporating the complexities of our diverse cultural backgrounds. Words can’t express how thankful we are to Anna, Caio, Kat, Anastasia, BenHamin, and all others at Deity. Thank you.
Same-Sex Wedding Krystal and Katherine
Photos by Xeniapark Photography
My wife and I had our wedding at Deity on 11/11/23 and it was one of the best decisions we ever made. We were looking for a unique, warm space to have an intimate micro wedding. We live in Boston so a beautiful venue, affordability, ease, and convenience were high priority for us. Deity brought all that and more. The space is absolutely stunning, we barely had to add any extra decor. The setup was great as different parts of the wedding were on different floors so it never felt like we were in the same space all day. And the BRIDAL SUITE?! Absolutely phenomenal and made getting ready for the day super convenient. We even did our first look photos there because we were in love with the look of it and the sunlight coming through. After our ceremony we did some couple shots on the roof that were so great.
The micro wedding package we chose was perfect for us. Ceremony, reception, food & drinks, basic decor like candles, and the DJ were included. The food was delicious and our guests LOVED the family style setup as everyone was able to try everything and serve themselves just the amount they wanted. Because we were so small we kept our reception on the main floor as opposed to adding the cellar. The main floor was great as it was spacious and everyone had room dance, sit, and chat with ease.
As for the staff, they were fantastic. Everything went smoothly and they were so keen on making sure my wife and I were taken care of the whole night. One of my big concerns was for my Grandma who sometimes has trouble walking and the shuffling between two floors was concerning. But Deity was on it, they kept the stair lift ready for her at all times and made sure she was given priority time and space to move around before the other guests. At the end of the reception, the staff packed up all our belongings and had it ready for us to take out the space so we could enjoy the entire reception with our guests.
Last but honestly most important, Anna. Anna was amazing to us. From the first FaceTime meeting she was kind, straight forward, detailed, and excited for us. I’ve never planned or seen a wedding be planned before, so I was struggling with what to do. Anna thought of everything. She assisted with timelines, payment reminders, streamlining decor, making suggestions for things I didn’t think about, and answered any question I had. She even assisted with setting up our after party at Someday Bar next door, which worked out perfectly. Anna was so easy to work with and accommodated me during the limited in person visits I could make. I can’t imagine not having her to assist us with our wedding. She truly made the Deity experience top notch.
Deity provided us with an absolutely beautiful wedding. We did not have the overwhelming stress, worries, or mishaps that we have heard usually occur with planning a wedding. Deity made it seamless so we could just enjoy the process and our day. We recommend to the highest degree. THANK YOU, DEITY! ❤️
Same-Sex Wedding Valentina and Sarah
Photos by Le Image
After an extensive search for budget-friendly wedding venues in the New York area, we discovered that Deity’s microwedding packages are unparalleled. The comprehensive wedding packages cover almost everything you need, sparing us the need to spend extra on decorations.
The venue itself is truly remarkable, and all of our guests commented on the unique character of the building. Anna, the dedicated wedding coordinator, proved invaluable at every stage of the planning process. She seamlessly coordinated with our chosen vendors, ensuring the smooth delivery of flowers and cake before our arrival. On the wedding day, Anna and her team orchestrated the entire event, allowing my wife and me to fully enjoy the moment. Even when we forgot to print out a seating chart, Anna efficiently helped us resolve the issue on the morning of the event.
The culinary experience exceeded expectations, considering the price point. The food was truly fantastic. The menu offered diverse options, making it easy to accommodate dietary preferences, including vegan and vegetarian choices. The venue even accommodated a vegan guest with a nut allergy, showcasing their flexibility. The bartender provided excellent service, and our guests thoroughly enjoyed the open bar.
Navigating the wedding industry as a lesbian couple presented challenges (even in New York), but Deity’s LGBTQ-inclusive environment made us feel completely at ease. Our guests, regardless of their backgrounds, felt genuinely welcome.
We wholeheartedly recommend Deity and extend our sincere gratitude to Anna and the entire team for their exceptional service, contributing to the flawless execution of our special day.
Same-Sex Wedding Alex and Angela
Photos by Natura Collective
“Deity was the most perfect venue to host our special day! From the very beginning of planning, they made it so easy for us. They took care of much of the decor, music, lighting, seating, catering and more! Anna was a rockstar, answering all our questions, emails and video chats before the big day. Even making sure everything ran smoothly the day-of. Emily was also so incredibly helpful on our big day and even went out of her way to help pin up my dress for me after the ceremony. The venue itself has so many picturesque features, we didn’t even need to leave the gorgeous bridal suite to capture most of our amazing photos. Finally, from our hand picked appetizers to the delicious dinner service, all of the food was incredible! Our favorite part was being privately served the appetizers and signature drinks in the suite after our ceremony. The staff at Deity made us feel like celebrities on our most special day, I couldn’t have imagined it being any more perfect!”
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